reverse the visibility.h files assumptions that we don't build shared libs by default

reverse the visibility.h files assumptions that we don't build shared libs by default

This avoids having to define define LIBFOO_DLL=1 all over the place. If we ever go with static libs we will
need to define LIBFOO_STATIC=1 but hopefully in some central location like the top level wscript.

Oh, and I also dropped support for gcc older than version 4.x because ardour will already not build
on such an old version.